Love Wisely:
A group coaching experience for women ready to change their relationship story for good!
In Love Wisely, we rewrite your outdated love template — so you can end the cycle of unfulfilling relationships and start creating the kind of love that actually lasts.
You’ll finally understand the unconscious patterns driving your relationship choices — and exactly how to change them from the inside out!
We'll explore the psychology behind your past relationship dynamics — and create a path toward something far more secure and nourishing.
You’ll understand why certain relationships felt so hard to walk away from…
Why red flags were easy to rationalise…
And why you’ve silenced your own needs in the hope that things would get better.
Most importantly, you’ll learn how to change the story — with a clear, compassionate framework for moving forward.
Scroll down to see everything you’ll gain inside the program…
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SEPT, 2025
“If you’ve ever said ‘Why do I keep attracting emotionally
unavailable or narcissistic men?’ — you are in the right place!”
Does It Feel Like...
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You keep attracting emotionally unavailable or narcissistic men — no matter how much work you’ve done on yourself?
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You second-guess your instincts, only to realize (too late) that you were right all along?
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You have walked on eggshells or lost your voice in past relationships — because you wanted (or needed) to keep the peace?
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You have minimized or excused red flags one too many times
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You’re smart, self-aware, and content in other areas — but love still feels confusing, disappointing, or disempowering?
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Deep down, you’re starting to wonder: "Will this pattern ever change? Maybe I'm just meant to be unlucky in love?"
What If You Could...
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Finally understand the unconscious processes driving your relationship choices — and how to change them?
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Feel confident, grounded and calm while dating — instead of anxious or self-doubting?
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Recognize red flags or warning signs super early and walked away (without guilt)?
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Trust yourself fully — even when things feel emotionally charged or uncertain?
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Learn a step-by-step framework for dating with clarity and boundaries — without feeling like you’re performing or playing a role?
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Identify & choose a partner who feels emotionally safe, present and ready — because you are, too?
“This isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about finally understanding yourself in a way that changes everything.”
What would change if you truly understood yourself in love?
Love Wisely is a transformative group coaching program for thoughtful, emotionally aware women who are tired of falling for emotionally unavailable or narcissistic men — and are ready to understand why it keeps happening, so they can finally break the pattern.
This isn’t just another course on red flags or dating advice.
It’s an in-depth journey into your unconscious love template — the emotional map shaped by your early experiences, core beliefs (schemas) and coping patterns that quietly influence who you’re attracted to, how you show up in relationships, and how long you stay.
In Love Wisely, you’ll learn:
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What your love template is made of — and how it’s been shaping your dating and relationship choices
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How core schemas like abandonment, self-sacrifice, and emotional deprivation play out in real-time attraction
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Why the “pull” you feel toward certain men is often schema chemistry, not intuition — and how to tell the difference
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How to spot emotionally unavailable dynamics early — before you get attached
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How to rebuild self-trust and emotional clarity so you stop second-guessing yourself
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And most importantly — how to rewrite your love template so it becomes a new internal guide
— one that helps you recognise emotional safety and build real connection with someone who can meet you where you're at!
And above all, know that you are worth it!
This Isn’t Surface-Level Advice - It’s About Deep Inner Work.
Love Wisely isn’t about making yourself more desirable or changing who you are to attract love!
Because the truth is:
You don’t need fixing.
You’re already a thoughtful, capable, deeply valuable woman with so much to offer the right person.
The real issue isn’t you.
It’s the layers of emotional conditioning, early learning and protective patterns that have shaped your relationship choices — without you even realising it. I call this you Love Template.
That’s what we explore in this program
Through guided coaching, live support and deep self-discovery, you’ll begin to rewrite your love template — through compassionate, meaningful inner work that changes what feels familiar, safe and worth choosing.
This is for the woman who’s done the work, but still feels stuck. Who’s ready to finally understand what’s been running the show — so she can choose differently and feel different in love.
This is the work of unlearning what no longer serves you, understanding the emotional wiring beneath your choices, and reconnecting with the inner steadiness and wisdom that’s been there all along.
You’ll begin to see:
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Why you’ve been pulled toward emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partners
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How those patterns formed — and what keeps them alive
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How to shift them at the core, so you’re no longer repeating what hurts
“You’re not the problem —your early emotional wiring has been quietly shaping your relationship patterns. That’s what we’ll untangle together.”
About Dr. Gemma Gladstone
Hi, I’m Dr. Gemma Gladstone — and after nearly three decades as a clinical psychologist, I now focus primarily on coaching women who are ready to change their relationship stories for good.
For 25+ years, I’ve helped women uncover the deeper emotional patterns — including schemas and attachment wounds — that silently shape their relationship choices, their self-worth and the way they show up in love.
Today, I work with emotionally intelligent, self-reflective women who are tired of repeating painful cycles with emotionally unavailable or narcissistic men — women who know they’re ready for something better, but just haven’t had the right map.
Through the lens of Schema Therapy and relationship psychology, I guide women to finally understand their patterns, reconnect with their instincts and begin choosing love that feels safe, mutual, and aligned.
This work is deeply personal to me. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it is when a woman stops blaming herself, starts trusting her inner wisdom, and realises she no longer has to settle.
Over the 12 weeks of Love Wisely, I’ll be your coach and companion — offering guidance, insight and support as you make meaningful changes that will stay with you for life.
If you’re ready to do things differently and finally feel clear, grounded and hopeful in love — I’d be honoured to walk that path with you.
You might be thinking…
"I’ve done so much inner work already — what’s different about this?”
I get this. Many of the women in Love Wisely have done therapy, read the books and developed deep self-awareness.
But awareness alone doesn’t shift the emotional templates driving your choices in love. That’s where this program is different.
We go deeper — into the patterns you didn’t even know were running the show — and help you gently rewrite them from the inside out.
“What if nothing can really change for me, what if I’m not meant to have the kind of love I want?”
This is the quiet fear so many women carry — especially if they’ve been stuck in the same painful patterns for years:
If that’s you, it makes complete sense.
When you’ve invested time and energy into healing but still find yourself drawn to the wrong people, it’s easy to assume something is unchangeable within you.
But what I’ve seen — time and time again — is that these patterns aren’t proof that you’re incapable of change.
They’re a sign that your love template has been silently shaping your choices all along.
And until you can see and shift that template, change will always feel just out of reach — no matter how much work you’ve done.
In Love Wisely, we work at the level of that template — the deeper emotional imprint that’s been guiding who you’re attracted to, how you attach, and what you tolerate.
Once you can name what’s been happening, you can begin to gently revise it — and from there, new experiences in love become possible.
What past clients have said
Lovely feedback from some of my 1:1 clients
Amelia, 41 - Melbourne
“Gemma’s style is warm, insightful, and never judgemental. I felt seen and understood, which made it easier to be honest with myself. I learned how to spot red flags early, and I’ve walked away from dynamics I would have been stuck in or put up with in the past.”
- Soraya, 33
“Working with Gemma has really helped me finally understand why I always seemed to end up with emotionally unavailable guys. For the first time, I can see my patterns clearly and I have a plan on how to start changing them.”
- Anika, 46 - Sydney
"I remember before I started seeing Gemma I was in a place where I felt totally hopeless about my relationship prospects. Things changed for me when I started to understand why I focused on some guys and disregarded others. After walking away early from some dead-end 'situations' and thinking about things differently I am now 4 months into a relationship with someone who sees me."
“When you can see your patterns clearly, you can stop repeating them.
That’s when real change begins.”
What's Included Exactly?
Love Wisely blends practical dating strategy with deep emotional insight, so you can finally start trusting and believing in yourself again; spot important red flags and indicators early and honour your needs in love — without apology.
You won’t be doing this alone. In a group format, together with like-minded women, you’ll be coached by someone who has spent nearly 29 years as a psychologist, with deep expertise in relationships, attachment, personality and schema-driven patterns.
This isn’t a passive program you’ll half-finish. It’s a heart-centred, live coaching experience — structured to support your transformation in real time. You’ll have the space, the tools and the encouragement to finally reconnect with your inner wisdom — and rewrite your love story from the inside out on your own terms.
This work isn’t just about dating differently. It’s about changing your relationship with yourself for the rest of your life.
Bonus Session
Bonus 1:1 coaching session at the beginning of the program to help you think about your focus & goals for the program
Group Coaching
12-weeks of expert support & coaching delivered online -(Weekly 90-minute live group coaching calls) with Dr. Gemma and a group of like-minded women
Recordings
Replays of all live coaching sessions available via a private portal.
Learning Tools
Worksheets, tools, and reflective exercises to keep you focused and guide your growth
Meditations
Bonus guided meditations to support Mindset Growth, Resilience, Self-Compassion and Inner-Child Reparenting.
Facebook Group
Supportive group community for encouragement and connection
A Look at the Core Pillars We'll Be Working Through Together
Each of these core areas will be explored across our 12 weeks together — through guided teaching, group discussion, reflection tools, and real-time coaching.
Understanding Your Relationship Patterns
We'll begin with an honest look at past relationships — identifying patterns, themes, and key emotional dynamics (You can’t change what you don’t understand.)
The aim is to uncover the emotional and psychological patterns that keep pulling you toward the same kinds of relationships. We'll be learning how schemas and early experiences quietly shape who you're drawn to — and how to stop repeating what hurts. We'll also be discovery our Love Template - how it was formed and how it has shaped past choices in love.
Elevating Self-Worth
We’ll explore how low self-worth, self-doubt, people-pleasing and guilt (and other learned coping behaviours) have interfered with your sense of self-trust — and how to come back to your own emotional truth.
Repairing your 'Red Flag Over-Ride' System and
Rebuilding Self-Trust
We'll be learning how to stop second-guessing and start listening to your instincts. Here we'll explore how to recognise emotional unavailability and subtle narcissistic traits early — without overthinking or making excuses. You’ll learn how to see red flags sooner and take action that protects your peace. Here we'll connect the dots from the past to the present and get a new perspective on how & why you may have overridden your own wisdom in past partner choices.
Owning Your Voice & Boundaries
Here we'll explore how we can express what we need without fear of pushing someone away. You’ll build the emotional muscle to speak up, hold your ground and honour your needs — even when it’s difficult.
Recognising and Choosing Connection That's Secure & Safe
Here we'll explore how we can meet & date new potential partners from a place of greater self-worth, emotional clarity and calm. This pillar will help you apply everything you’ve learned, so you can filter in the right kind of partner — and stop settling for anything less than what feels secure, mutual and real. This pillar will shape the discovery of your NEW re-written Love Template.
Investment & Enrolment
Option No. 1
Standard 12-Week Group Program - Start Date 25th SEPT 2025)
ENROLLMENT NUMBERS ARE LIMITED (20 Places Only).
Investment & Enrolment
Option No. 2
Standard 12-Week Group Program PLUS 1:1 Coaching Add-On.
Start Date TBC - September, 2025
Strictly limited places available (Max 5 Places).
Is Love Wisely the right program for me right now?
It's definitely for you if:
- You have a history of getting involved with narcissists or emotionally unavailable men AND you really want to change that!
- You have a growth mind-set and are open to learning new ways to understand yourself
- You are ready to take action and implement what you learn
- You love personal development and want to understand your relationship patterns in a whole new way
- You're tired of wasting time in dead-end relationships that go nowhere
- There are aspects to your personality which get in the way of you trusting yourself, putting yourself first and acting in your best interests (i.e., you are a self-confessed people-pleaser!)
- You are self-aware and reflective
- You are willing to be a group member who is respectful and non-judgemental
- You are motivated and committed to showing up for at least 50% of live calls.
It's not for you if:
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You’re currently in a crisis, trauma response, or unsafe relationship and need therapeutic or emergency support (see FAQs)
- You're suffering from a mental health condition which takes priority
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You’re looking for therapy or deep trauma processing (this is coaching, not clinical treatment)
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You’re hoping for a “quick fix” without doing any reflection or self-exploration
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You’re unwilling to explore the emotional patterns and beliefs that may be keeping you stuck
- You're more comfortable with 1:1 support rather than group coaching
More kind words from current coaching clients
"I feel more grounded and hopeful than I have in years.”
Kylie, 39 - UK
“This work helped me get my voice back. I used to over-function and lose myself in relationships, but now I know how to stay grounded in who I am. That’s changed everything — not just in dating, but in how I show up for myself.”
Monique, 38 - Sydney
“The idea of schema chemistry completely changed how I understood my past relationships. It was like a light switched on. I’m no longer stuck in the same loop — and I know what to look for going forward.”
Jodie, 44
"I’ve done a lot of therapy over the years, but this was different. Gemma helped me put all the pieces together and understand how my early experiences were still playing out in my dating life. I feel more grounded and hopeful than I have in years.”
FAQs
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Registrations Are Currently Closed
Next Group Starting 25th September 2025
