Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable Men - Even When You Know Better

The Hidden Psychological Pattern Driving Your Attraction (And How to Break It)

Free LIVE Masterclass

Wednesday, 1st April at 7:15 - 8.15 PM (AEDT) + Q&A

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If you keep finding yourself drawn to men who turn out to be emotionally unavailable, avoidant or narcissistic - even when you knew better - you're not alone!

In this free masterclass, I’ll walk you through the real reasons this happens. You’ll learn about unconscious attraction patterns, how early experiences shape your “chemistry,” and why some relationships feel so magnetic yet leave you unfulfilled.


This isn’t about blame or telling you to “just raise your standards.” It’s about understanding the deeper psychological forces that drive your choices in love and how you can start making different ones.


By the end, you’ll see your dating history in a new light and know the first steps to changing your patterns for good!

Yes, I’m In

In this masterclass, you’ll discover:

Why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable men (when you don’t want to be)

How “schema chemistry” explains those intense but unhealthy connections 

The key early experiences that shape your love template

 

The first steps to rewire your attraction patterns for good

 

What to Expect

  • A live 60‑minute masterclass (with replay access for all who register)
  • A powerful new lens to understand “chemistry” and why it can mislead us
  • A clear framework for looking back at your relationship history and spotting hidden patterns
  • Insights into how schemas (core beliefs) shape attraction and keep you stuck in cycles with emotionally unavailable men
  • A compassionate, non‑blaming approach that shows you attraction isn’t random, it can be understood and changed
  • The first step toward breaking the cycle and starting to choose differently

  • Practical reflection prompts with your workbook so you leave with personalised insights
  • Clarity about the path forward, so you can see how change is possible
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About Your Host

Hello, I'm Dr. Gemma Gladstone

I’m a former clinical psychologist with over 25 years’ experience supporting women to understand their relationship patterns and make lasting change.

Over the years, I became deeply passionate about helping women avoid toxic and unhealthy relationships before they take hold, and instead move toward relationships that feel emotionally safe, respectful, and steady.

After a long career in clinical psychology, I shifted my focus to dating and relationship coaching for women who are tired of repeating unfulfilling patterns and want to understand why they keep happening. Many of the women I work with are insightful, emotionally intelligent and self-aware, yet find themselves drawn to emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partners despite knowing better.

Through the lens of schema coaching, I help women understand the deeper emotional patterns shaping attraction, reconnect with their intuition and start making choices from clarity rather than chemistry.  This work is about developing self-trust, recognising early warning signs and choosing relationships that genuinely support wellbeing and growth.

This work is very close to my heart. I’ve seen how powerful it is when a woman begins to trust herself again, stops minimising what feels wrong and realises she no longer has to settle.  I’d be honoured to guide you as you start seeing your patterns, and your possibilities, in a new way.