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You Know You Keep Meeting the Wrong Kind of Man

You can see the pattern clearly,

You just need a proven path to change it!

Enroll Now - Early Access Closes June 30th

Does this sound familiar? You want a secure, loving relationship with a good partner, but...

  • you have a pattern of past relationships with emotionally unavailable men
  • you've dated one too many narcissists!
  • you meet guys who want a casual, non-committal thing, but you've stayed anyway hoping they'll eventually want more
  • to tend to override your instincts or doubt yourself when it comes to red flags
  • you've had high chemistry initially that doesn’t lead to a healthy relationship
  • you ask yourself, “Why does this keep happening to me?” or "what am I doing wrong?"

You're not doing anything wrong and there's nothing wrong with you!

You need to set yourself free from the love traps that keep you stuck in relationships you know are not good for you

You need the insight, strength and self-belief to get out early and end something as soon as you see the signs

There are deeper forces shaping your relationships decisions

Over the past 25+ years of working with women and their relationship patterns, I’ve come to understand that what’s sitting underneath these experiences is something I refer to as your Love Template.

It’s a way of describing that internal love map that broadly influences:

  • who you feel drawn to
  • what feels familiar and compelling
  • how you feel about yourself & others
  • and what keeps you stuck in the wrong relationships

When this template remains unconscious, the same patterns tend to repeat - even when part of you knows it’s not what you truly want.

This is why understanding and beginning to rewrite your Love Template is one of the most effective ways to start shifting these patterns.

This is where that pattern begins to change

Love Wisely Foundations is a structured self-study program designed to help you understand and begin shifting the deeper patterns shaping your relationships.

So you can:

  • step out of unhealthy or one-sided dynamics
  • stop losing yourself in connection
  • avoid unnecessary emotional pain
  • and move toward relationships that are stable, mutual and emotionally available

Here’s what begins to shift as you do this work

You begin to move from:

  • repeating the same painful relationship pattern
    → to clearly recognising what’s actually driving it
  • feeling pulled toward emotionally unavailable or unhealthy dynamics
    → to noticing those patterns in real time, before you become deeply entangled
  • overriding your instincts and second-guessing yourself
    → to feeling more grounded, steady and self-trusting in your decisions
  • hoping connection will eventually become healthy
    → to intentionally choosing relationships that are emotionally available, mutual and aligned with your wellbeing

The Love Wisely framework is designed to help you move from feeling confused about why this pattern keeps happening… to understanding your relationship patterns with far greater clarity, insight and self-awareness.

So instead of unconsciously repeating the same cycle, you can begin approaching dating and relationships in a more intentional, informed and emotionally grounded way.

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Introducing

Inside you'll embark on a proven path to re-write your love template and release yourself from the traps that have kept you stuck in unhealthy connections - so you can save yourself precious time and safeguard your heart. 

What you’ll learn (step by step)

We move through this work across 8 structured modules:

Module 1

The Pattern, The Pull and The Paradox

 

We begin by identifying what’s actually been happening in your relationships.

You’ll:

  • clarify your repeating relationship pattern (through a whole new lens)
  • identify patterns of replication across relationships
  • recognise the roles you tend to take on
  • understand the paradox of wanting one thing but feeling drawn to another

We also explore “romantic types” - and why what feels like a “type” is often part of the pattern itself.

Module 2

Your Love Template: The Unconscious Map You’ve Been Following

 

You’ll be introduced to your Love Template - your inte/rnal map for relationships.


You’ll:

  • map your current Love Template (first draft)
  • connect your past relationship experiences to this template
  • begin to see how your pattern is structured

You’ll also be introduced to the idea that deeper emotional patterns (schemas) are shaping this template.

Module 3

Chemistry & Schemas: Why You’re Drawn to the Wrong People

 

Here we explore the psychological drivers behind your pattern.

You’ll learn:

  • what schemas are and how they form
  • how relational schemas show up in dating and relationships
  • how to identify your key schemas

We also introduce schema chemistry —
 why certain people feel so compelling, even when they aren’t right for you.

Module 4

Love & Self-fulfilling Prophecies: how to actively change your path in love

 

You’ll:

  • understand what triggers your patterns
  • recognise how you respond when they are activated
  • see how this influences your decisions and behaviour

This is where insight becomes practical and usable.

Module 5

Who You Become When You’re Dating (and why this matters!)

 

In this module, we explore your dating personas.

You’ll:

  • identify the roles (or dating personas) you take on when dating
  • understand how they are shaped by your schemas
  • see how they can interfere with healthy connection
  • recognise how they may unintentionally sabotage opportunities

Module 6

Love Traps: avoiding & over-coming common relationship traps 

 

We take a deeper dive into common relational schemas and how they play out, including:

  • people-pleasing and other self-suppression patterns
  • low self-worth and defectiveness
  • abandonment
  • emotional deprivation

You’ll see how these shape what you tolerate, prioritise and expect in relationships.  This module is all about how to avoid painful & harmful relationship dynamics

Module 7

Intentional Dating (aka dating differently

without losing yourself)

 

You’ll learn:

  • how to recognise key red flags and green flag
  • how to correct your red flag over-ride system
  • what emotional availability actually looks like
  • how to identify unhealthy dynamics early on
  • narcissistic patterns and how to avoid them
  • a new dating mindset

Module 8

Rewriting your Love Template

 

You’ll be guided to:

  • revisit your original Love Template
  • identify what needs to shift and how to implement that in real life
  • create a new internal map for relationships

This becomes your guiding reference point moving forward.  You'll have a new map to help you screen out unsuitable matches early, act in your best interests, recognise healthy connects and Love Wisely!

Everything you’ll receive

 

  • 8 structured modules (dropped weekly) - lifetime access
  • Short, focused, easy to follow lessons 
  • Reflection exercises and workbooks
  • A guided Love Template mapping process

✨ Early Access Bonus

For this initial round, you’ll also receive:

  • 2 live group Q&A sessions

These are an opportunity to:

  • ask questions
  • gain clarity
  • and feel supported as you move through the program

This is a one-time inclusion for early access participants only.

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Here’s how early access works

EARLY ACCESS INVESTMENT $447 (AUD)

Enrollments opens: Friday May 8
First Module released: Week of 25th May (AEST)

Early access closes Tuesday 26th May (11:59pm)

Early Access enrollment will close shortly after the first module is released.  

After that:

  • the program will remain available
  • at a higher price
  • without the live Q&A sessions  
Enroll Now For $447

If this feels like the right next step…

👉 Join Love Wisely - Foundations

Rewriting your Love Template can change the course of your relationships!

 

There is nothing random about your past romantic relationships or the patterns you've noticed.

And once you begin to understand the pattern - and what’s actually sitting beneath it - you’re no longer caught in it in the same way.

Love Wisely - Foundations gives you the tools, knowledge and step-by-step guidance to begin rewriting your Love Template and shifting away from emotionally unavailable, unhealthy or one-sided dynamics, toward relationships that feel safer, healthier and more emotionally secure.

The impact of this work goes far beyond simply “understanding yourself.”

This work can change your entire approach to relationships.

It helps you:

  • recognise unhealthy dynamics earlier
  • stop overriding the warning signs you can already feel
  • avoid unnecessary heartbreak and emotional exhaustion
  • and save precious time by becoming far more discerning about who you invest in emotionally

This work will help you correct what I often refer to as the red flag override system - the tendency to ignore, minimise, rationalise, or push past your own instincts in the hope that a relationship will eventually feel safe or fulfilling.

And because schemas influence so many areas of life, the benefits of this work often extends beyond dating and relationships.  

Many women find themselves becoming:

  • more intuitive & wise
  • more self-aware & reflective
  • more willing and able to set healthy boundaries across different life domains not just in romantically
  •  more in-tune with their needs, personal goals & values

For this initial Early Access release, you’ll receive:

  • foundational pricing
  • 2 live group Q&A sessions with me
  • life-time access to the course and any updates
  • and the opportunity to move through the material gradually, at your own pace

There’s no pressure to rush through the course.

This is thoughtful, reflective work designed to support meaningful long-term change.

FAQs

Still don't have the answers you were looking for? Feel free to contact me hello@drgemmagladstone.com

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About Dr. Gemma Gladstone

Hi, I’m Dr. Gemma Gladstone and I help women who are ready to change their relationship story for good! 

I'm a dating and relationship coach and schema therapist and was  formerly a clinical psychologist for many years in private practice. 

For 25+ years, I’ve helped women uncover the deeper emotional patterns - including schemas and attachment wounds - that silently shape their relationship choices, their self-worth and the way they show up in love.

I help emotionally intelligent, self-reflective women who are tired of repeating painful cycles with emotionally unavailable or narcissistic men.  Women who know they’re ready for something better, but just haven’t had the right map (yet!).

Through the lens of Schema Therapy and relationship psychology, I show you how to identify your relationships patterns, reconnect with you instincts and begin choosing love that feels safe, mutual, and aligned.

This work is deeply personal to me. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it is when you can stops blaming yourself, starts trusting your inner wisdom and realise that things can change!